Film-maker Al Bailey agreed to follow his recently widowed pilot friend āChristianā around the world as he embarked on a quest to find a new love through Tinder. What starts out as a well-meaning and fun documentary soon turns into something altogether darker and more disturbing. Al and āChristianā have been friends for a while, although the origin of their friendship isnāt really explained, but by the end of the documentary you realise that these two men didnāt really know one another at all.
The original concept of āDTFā seems to be Al observing āChristianāsā dates as an exploration of life after being widowed and also to see if romance really can be found on a dating app. What we actually witness is the brutal break down of a friendship as āChristianā is overruled by addiction and trauma following the loss of his wife. It doesnāt take long before āChristianāsā behaviour starts to become erratic and despite multiple final warnings from Al, the documentary continues on with āChristianā acting worse and worse.
Around the half way point of āDTFā you wonder why Al continued to film āChristianā when itās pretty obvious that his friend needs serious help. As they continue to jet around the world we witness āChristianā getting obliterated with alcohol and drugs, and finding solace in the arms of any woman thatāll have sex with him. Al is visibly shocked at what heās witnessing and despite a couple of frank conversations, he continues to watch his friend unravel. Things get uncomfortable very quickly yet Al, and the viewer, canāt seem to prise themselves away from the car crash.
āDTFā is not an easy watch for a number of reasons. On the one hand youāre pretty much witnessing a breakdown and on the other the way āChristianā treats women is absolutely disgusting. The dives he drags Al and the crew to are shocking, especially as āChristianā gloats about being able to sexually violate strippers provided you give them enough money. Things come to an explosive head in Las Vegas but even then, Al doesnāt stop the documentary and continues to push on.
If anything, āDTFā reveals the issues that pilots face and the way their lives can spiral out of control. Of course, add into that being widowed and āChristianā is quite up against it. Interestingly no airline would comment on the behaviour of pilots off-duty, which leads you to think that āChristianāsā behaviour is par for the course in the profession. The final scene will come as no surprise but you canāt help but wonder how Al expected things to go given that āChristianāsā behaviour switches within minutes of the documentary starting.
Cast: Al Bailey Director: Al Bailey Certificate: 18 Duration: 85 mins Released by: Jump Seat Productions Release date: 31st August 2020 Buy DTF
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