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Review: Ashley Monroe explores co-dependence & toxicity on emotional new project ‘Dear Nashville’

Ashley Monroe has always possessed a rare ability to write from the quiet centre of hurt, but ‘Dear Nashville' feels like the moment she finally turns and faces it head-on. Framed as a “23-year-long affair” with the city that made her, the eight-song project plays out like a handwritten letter—creased, tear-stained and long overdue. From the outset, Monroe makes it clear this is not a love letter in the traditional sense, but something far more complicated. It’s a reckoning. A confession. A reluctant admission that sometimes the thing you love most is also the thing that breaks you.

That tension is established immediately on ‘I Hate Nashville,' a striking opening that pairs dreamy, almost psychedelic 60s-leaning production with some of the album’s most cutting lines. “It takes the best years of your life,” Monroe sings, her voice floating above hazy instrumentation that softens the blow without dulling its impact. There’s affection woven in—references to legends like Paul Franklin and Vince Gill, to friendships and songs—but it’s buried beneath a sense of exhaustion. “These stupid neon lights,” she sighs, framing the city as a toxic partner she can’t quite walk away from. It’s a bold, disarming way to begin, and it sets the emotional blueprint for everything that follows.

From there, Monroe leans fully into the ambiguity of her central metaphor. ‘Gettin’ Out of Hand' feels like a classic love song on the surface, but the line “there’s just no walking away, it’s way too late, this hell bent hold you’ve got on me is getting out of hand” blurs the boundary between person and place. That same duality runs through ‘What Are We?', where she opens with “I can’t take it anymore” and asks, almost rhetorically, “what side of gone are you on?” It’s the language of a fractured relationship, but within the context of the album, Nashville itself becomes the unreliable partner—demanding, elusive and impossible to define.

Musically, ‘Dear Nashville' is just as cohesive as it is conceptually. The production leans heavily into a hazy, retro palette—twangy guitars, pedal steel, and a subtle psychedelic wash that gives the entire record a late-night, dreamlike quality. “Steal” is a perfect example, opening with Paul Franklin’s pedal steel before settling into a slow, nocturnal groove as Monroe admits, “you know how to steal a heart, don’t you?” It’s seductive and weary all at once, capturing the magnetic pull of a city she knows too well. Even when the tempo shifts slightly on ‘Haunted,' there’s still a lingering sense of unease, as she sings about being left behind and second-guessed—feelings that could just as easily apply to a changing industry as they could a failed romance.

The album’s middle stretch is where Monroe’s introspection deepens into something almost philosophical. ‘Dreamin’ introduces a bluesy, smoky energy, as she questions whether it’s “really worth burning all my big ideas down to the ground,” before pleading, “I don’t want to wake up, just let me keep on dreaming.” It’s the sound of someone caught between ambition and disillusionment, unwilling to give up but no longer certain what they’re chasing. That emotional push-and-pull continues on ‘Havin’ It Bad,' where jealousy, obsession and temptation swirl together in a way that feels both deeply personal and universally recognisable.

By the time the album reaches ‘Quittin’, Monroe has stripped everything back to its bare essentials. Over a sparse acoustic arrangement, she delivers one of the record’s most revealing lines: “what if the high I’ve been chasing is out there waiting?” It’s a question that cuts to the core of not just this album, but the entire artistic experience. Yet even here, in her most self-aware moment, she can’t quite let go. “You’re the price I wanna pay,” she admits, before conceding she’ll likely stay “till the day I die.” As the pedal steel fades into the distance, it feels less like a resolution and more like an acceptance of the cycle.

What makes ‘Dear Nashville' so compelling is its ability to operate on multiple levels at once. On the surface, it’s a deeply personal exploration of Monroe’s relationship with a city and an industry that has both nurtured and neglected her. But beneath that, it becomes something broader—a meditation on love, ambition, identity and the cost of chasing a dream. By framing Nashville as a lover, Monroe transforms something abstract into something achingly human, allowing listeners to project their own experiences onto the songs.

Ultimately, ‘Dear Nashville' is not an easy listen, nor is it meant to be. It’s a record steeped in longing, frustration and hard-earned clarity, with far more shadows than light. But within that darkness lies its power. This is Monroe at her most honest, her most vulnerable and arguably her most artistically complete—laying everything bare in a way that feels both cathartic and unresolved. It’s not about finding closure; it’s about learning to live with the questions.

Track list: 1. I Hate Nashville 2. Gettin' Out of Hand 3. What Are We? 4. Steal 5. Haunted 6. Dreamin' 7. Havin' it Bad 8. Quittin Release Date: 27th March Record Label: Independent Buy ‘Dear Nashville' right here

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